Pet peeve alert.
Principals, how do you refer to the school at which you work? Or the staff with whom you work?
My school or our school? My teachers or our teachers?
Teachers, how do you refer to your classroom? My classroom or our classroom?
We have a couple of good phrases in our district, and in our schools. For example, #togetherweRfife is our district’s main hashtag. The capital R stands for relationships. This idea is very ‘our’ vs. ‘my’. At our middle school, they talk a lot about “we’re all in this together”. We, together.
Do you have a reaction when a principal says, “I was working with my teachers at my school last week.”
I do. There seems something patriarchal, some big fat line between a principal and teachers with that statement. My teachers.
“Last week our amazing educators were working on mastery experiences in classrooms. We have learned that mastery experiences are the best way to develop a collective sense of efficacy. It was wonderful work that will have a huge impact on our kids.”
That sounds and feels better. At least it does to me.